Love | We All Need to Know We Are Loved

Love is used in many ways. The surprising thing is the phrase, “I love you,” in the past was almost never spoken between older adults and their children. When I brought this up at a group meeting of people sixty years and older, there was almost 100% agreement with what I just wrote. All of us need to use these important words among those we love. I have a hard time believing every one somehow cannot utter, “I love you,” when it is appropriate. People just seem to take it for granted that others are aware of these unspoken thoughts. They are not! The good news is that I hear younger people using, “Love, Love Ya, All My Love,” seemingly all the time. Who says we aren’t making progress! This blog, I hope, will be a reminder that we all need to know that we are...

Hope | Be Open to Possibilities

We all need to have hope! Even in the worst of times, there is still a possibility. Hope just does not come from wild imaginations, but realities that can be open to us all. Hope is the step prior to inspiration that is necessary to help us get through life. People that believe in God seem to have more hope in their lives. Every day I hope that I can impact someone’s life for the better. I hope that you will join me in...

Happy People | Send the Right Message

I don’t know too many happy people. But, I certainly recognize them when I see them. And, when I get to know them, there is no question about it. My wife died about two years ago, and I wondered if I could ever be happy again. I found out that I could. When I selected a new church for a Sunday service, I got there early and took a seat in the very last pew in the center section. I was half an hour early. As I watched the congregation arrive, I observed a lady who seemed to know every one that entered; and she struck me as the happiest person I had ever seen. Surprisingly, as it got closer to 11 o’clock, she came in and sat down next to me. I later found out that I had taken the seat that she regularly occupied. This went on for several Sundays, and I finally broke the ice by asking her what made her so happy. The answer was, “A divorce.” She was alone, I was alone, and we still are alone. But, we have had some wonderful times going out to dinner, the theater, and of course being in church together. Now you will recognize two happy people, if you join us in the last pew! Being happy sends a message – The right message. Be sure your name is on...

Depression | Help is Available

It’s easy to get depressed. It happens to me quite often. Fortunately, it only lasts hours, not days. Having felt depression, I know what you are going through. Get help if it is long term. Help is...